Perspective by Tori Reid
Feel secure in your emotions, confident in your decisions, and connected in your relationships.

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Feb
10
Game Over.

Game Over.

You probably didn't know this about me, but I don't like eating avocado.
3 min read
Feb
06
"Don't Tell Him What to Do..."

"Don't Tell Him What to Do..."

People who care about you will care about how you feel.
3 min read
Jan
30
Denial, Truth, and Change

Denial, Truth, and Change

"Eighty percent of a therapist's work is working with denial."
13 min read
Jan
23
What’s Your Conflict Style?

What’s Your Conflict Style?

The missing work of attachment styles.
25 min read
Jan
09
Requests vs. Demands: A Key to Honest Relationships

Requests vs. Demands: A Key to Honest Relationships

If requests are for truth, and demands are for compliance, which one is your behavior really communicating?
17 min read
Jan
02
How Self-Trust Grows in the Cracks of Imperfection

How Self-Trust Grows in the Cracks of Imperfection

The most confident people make just as many mistakes as people who lack confidence.
6 min read
Dec
15
No, You're Not "Too Self Aware"

No, You're Not "Too Self Aware"

It doesn’t stop at, “This is who I am.” It asks, “What am I capable of?”
4 min read
Oct
30
How Taking Things Personally Hurts Relationships - and How to Stop

How Taking Things Personally Hurts Relationships - and How to Stop

I had to learn to define love differently. I needed to experience a healthy kind of love that doesn't require so much pain.
29 min read
Oct
26
What Pop Psychology Gets Wrong: A Simple Guide to Real Mental Wellness

What Pop Psychology Gets Wrong: A Simple Guide to Real Mental Wellness

I love that more people are feeling comfortable going to therapy as a result of Pop Psychology content. I wonder how much of that session time is spent reversing the impact of the content itself.
20 min read
Sep
30
Mindset vs. Somatic Healing: You Don’t Have to Choose

Mindset vs. Somatic Healing: You Don’t Have to Choose

PSA: work around mindset and beliefs is not separate or in contradiction to Somatic work. It's a part of it.
9 min read