Are You Setting Boundaries, or Erecting Barriers?
We can define barriers as the roadblock version of boundaries. Meaning: they’re not here to repair the relationship or bring us closer together. They’re here to block connection and intimacy instead.
Healing Is / Not...
Healing is not about having a "calm nervous system".
It's about having one that lives in
How to Feel Your Feelings Instead of Intellectualizing Them
The issue isn't that our feelings grow so big they overwhelm us. It's that we shrink to become them, because we've forgotten the rest of who we are.
The Art of Suffering
I dedicate this article to my father, and a practice that's saved my life on more than one occasion.
Inward.
Sometimes I forget that several generations of lived experience already exist inside my DNA and I've barely scratched the surface of unpacking them from the inside.
